Introvert dan Extrovert

Assalamualaikum wbt & hai :)

Masa awal-awal masuk degree dulu, orang duk cakap-cakap pasal introvert-extrovert tapi tak paham apa benda la dua-dua tu.

Bila masuk clinical years baru start paham. Introvert & extrovert ialah dua major personaliti yang exist dalam dunia sekarang. I was first heard about it when i was in psychiatry posting. Masa tu ada lecture pasal personality-thingy.
Oh ya, ada satu lagi; ambivert. Yang ni combination of introvert & extrovert.

Then ada orang kenalkan dengan buku Susan Cain, The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking. However, tak habis-habis baca sampai sekarang 😆

Untuk sesiapa yang still tak tahu dia introvert or extrovert, boleh try buat personality test kat sini.
Atau nak tahu pasal revolution quiet people, boleh tengok website quietrev ni.

Nak tahu kenapa agak penting untuk kita tahu which personality?
It will affect your study and work environment later on. And at least kawan-kawan tahu awak jenis macam mana, so that diorang akan faham awak why you are like this and why you are like that.
Besides, ia boleh bantu untuk pilih course and kerja macam mana yang suit.

Bukan nak kata sape-sape yg tak pilih course yang sesuai dengan dia, dia takleh survive. Boleh je. Cuma struggle dia tu tough la. But hey, you will be out of your comfort zone, and it helps to develop yourself for future career 😊

That's it.
Semoga post ni membantu untuk meleraikan apa-apa persoalan yg ada 😉

I may not explaining in details about introvert and extrovert now. Later i will try to do a simple post about it, insyaAllah 😄

Assalamualaikum and enjoy your weekend.

Not a directly proportional equation.

Assalamualaikum wbt.

It's been a long time since my last post. Haha.

Currently, i am in my final year of medical school in north of Malaysia.
Please pray for me and my friends so that we will pass our final examination in one shot amin.

Last week, i had my long case assessment, for orthopaedics posting.

Not to say that i am a hardworking girl but i am trying to be. My groupmates (exceptional to few), are not that those who would stay up late in the night.
Unfortunately, i failed my assessment that day.

I realized one thing. Even i already knew about this, sometimes He wants to remind us again and again.
How hard you study, how late in the night you sleep, how tired you are, sometimes the result is not proportional to what you have done. No, i'm not saying that Allah is not fair. In fact, He is the Most Fair.

EFFORT ∝ 1/RESULT

Yes, this sound unfair. But it's a big NO!

What i've learn:
1. All that you want, you must  pray, ask from Him. However, not all that you asked for will be granted right away, there is few conditions (i'll tell in other post). On top of that, you still have to make your effort towards it because it is an evident that you are the creature of Him. You need His help in everything you want. Even, a simple thing like sneezing. If He does not grant you to expel out whatever irritating you, you will not sneeze.

2. Do not being too comfortable with what you have done. You think it is enough but no.

So, it is such a very big significant (you name it) lesson that i have learnt. Please pray for me, i will have my second attempt of long case assessment this coming Monday (28 Nov 2016). I want to do my best and pass.

Thank you for those who have been supporting me especially my mother. She is a so patience mother and never being doubtful in me. She always said that i can do this, i can do that. Thank you mom for believing me :)

Thank you for reading.
Have a bless Jumaah :)

Don't forget Kahfi :D

Ageing Malaysia?

Today we will talk something more on scientific and facts.

Last Monday (17 Jan 2016), I just participated in a seminar. They were discussing the ageing issue, that was estimated to happen to Malaysia in the year 2035 *sweating*

Title: Media Roundtable on Ageing. "Age inclusiveness and Supportive Environments."

They decided to organize this seminar to spread it to the public by the help of the media. by the way, this is the second seminar done, after year 2005.
According to the Older Malaysian Population statistics (by ethnicity) from year 1980 to 2040, they estimated that by the year 2035, 15% of Malaysian population are older people. In Malaysia, the older citizen are those who aged 60 years old above (or after pension). [Source from DSM, 2001; 2011; 2012]
This statistics were presented by the Director of Malaysian Research Institute on Ageing, Prof. DR. Tengku Aizan Hamid.

Besides, she also emphasizing the relation between percentage of older (65+) population vs GNI per capita between the ASEAN countries. Brunei is the country that has highest GNI per capita but having lowest percentage of older population. In simple words, Brunei has the highest resources to help developing the facilities and services for their older citizens BUT they have small number of ageing population. While Malaysia, ranked at the middle, with quite low resources and having quite high number of aged people. This is from the year 2014.

In Malaysia, among all three major ethnicity (Malay, Chinese, Indian), Chinese people are those having long life expectancy: female 79.7 years old, male 75 years old. And among all states in Malaysia, Perak is the one that having highest percentage distribution of older people.
So, I think it answered why people are telling that Perak is a 'pencen' state. *wink*

From all the scientific statistics, it is important to have more than 2 children. Because, the 2 children will just replace their parents, which actually doesn't contribute to the growth & development of the country.
So, planned wisely :D

In addition, they also emphasized on the facilities & services offered for the older people in Malaysia. Of course, our facilities & services are not comparable to the Western countries. My sister, who are studying in UK once said, there, the bus also provided facility that can help disabled people to ride the bus easily. For example, they have this one system that can change the stairs of the bus (i'm not sure change the stairs or another thing that has flat surface and help the disable people to easily ride the bus). This surely very helpful.

They also invited representatives from few organisations such as Social & Welfare Department, KKM, Geriatricians and also NACSCOM to discuss and answered the questions from the media and also participants.
From the discussion, actually government has taken this issue seriously. There are policies been established. From the policies, quite many facilities & services have been provided through JKM channel. They provide  shelter for those with no relative that can take care of them, including independent & dependent people. And other few facilities around Malaysia to help all those older population.

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From my observation of 4 years living in Ipoh, Perak..there are quite a number of older people here, especially Chinese.
For example, if we go to Bukit Kledang (famous hiking point), most of the visitors are Chinese people, i think maybe pensioners. And they really look healthy and fit! *oh gosh*
Like, they still can climb Bukit Kledang, which quite long route ( if i'm not mistaken about 10km). And if we go to Padang Polo, most uncles & aunties were older Chinese people, and they either jogging/brisk walking around or have taichi/dancing-thingy session. It is very amazing that they are all looks very fit even they (seriously) more than 60 years old.

In Ipoh, there are quite many run or marathon competition. And again, you can see quite big  number of these Chinese older people participating, especially men. Wah, sometimes I felt so ashamed meh -.-

*So long la this post. haha

So, as a conclusion, please take care of your health. In the future, we will become the older people(kalau panjang umur), replacing them. Treat them wisely, and one fine day, hopefully our children will take care of us too.

Let's make this a reality *yosh*

Novel Komsas Bahasa Melayu

Assalamualaikum :) :)

Banyak benda terlintas dekat kepala ni, tapi tu la..bila dah ada depan laptop, bukan boleh bukak blog dan terus menulis. bukak playlist dulu, tengok sana sini dulu. last-last tak ingat pun yang tadi nak bukak blog. haha -.-'

Sekarang dekat facebook, dah macam suggestion box yang dekat kaunter tu. kalau tak puas hati pa pe, drop je suggestion dalam box tu.
Kadang-kadang macam fed up jugak la orang duk kompelin sana sini. Tapi, dalam duk kompelin tu, ada jugak yang bagus nya dan membantu untuk improvement.

Contohnya, pasal novel komsas bahasa melayu (tak sure yang tingkatan berapa dan zon mana)

Dekat fb tadi ada orang duk viral pasal content dalam novel ni. Ada jugak baca and rasa nya tak berapa appropriate la. Scenario yang di-explain dalam novel ni (yg di-viral tu) macam tak sesuai untuk dibincangkan dalam kelas dekat sekolah :(
Frankly speaking, macam ayat novel cinta yang dekat kedai buku tu. SERIOUSLY!
Saya tahu sebab saya pun pernah jugak baca novel-novel cinta ni.

Sorry dear author, saya rasa tak sesuai nak letak ayat macam tu. Yela fine, budak-budak ni mesti belajar jugak dalam biologi macam mana flow of sperm-ovum-whatsoever tu, tapi please lah, tu biologi. Saya sendiri pun bila masuk degree baru expose dengan  benda-benda macam ni (saya belajar medic ok!).

Tak pelik kot kalau nanti makin bertambah statistik masalah sosial especially dalam kalangan remaja muslim dekat Malaysia. Dah kalau novel penuh kontroversi macam ni ada dalam silibus bahasa melayu sekolah.

Ye saya tahu saya pun bukan lah bagus sangat BM ni. Tulis pasal ni pun mix BM-BI, grammar tolak tepi la memang tak betul ke tunggang terbalik ke apa.
Tapi, PLEASE la..Subjek BM ni penting, untuk preserve bahasa kebangsaan kita ni daripada lenyap. Bak kata Laksamana Hang Tuah, "Takkan melayu hilang di dunia."

Sangat lah tak sesuai nak ajar student sekolah menengah pastu ada scene macam tu. Apa ni? Bagi saya, belajar bahasa melayu ni macam belajar nak mengaji Al-Quran. You have to watch your manner. Bahasa melayu pernah jadi lingua franca kot.

Sebenarnya bahasa melayu ni cantik sangat. Eventhough saya ni takde la pandai sastera ke, pandai berpantun ke pandai bersajak, bersyair ke..tapi bila belajar bahasa melayu ni boleh nampak cantiknya bahasa. Dan bahasa melayu ni jugak melambangkan kesopanan orang melayu, bagi saya la. Orang dulu2 nak tegur pun ada kias-kias nya nak menegur ke nak memuji ke.
Jadi, takkan lah kita nak musnahkan keindahan bahasa melayu ni dengan adding up scene-scene yang tak sesuai ni untuk pelajar sekolah menengah belajar sastera?

Sebagai seorang yang suka membaca, saya nak share something. Bila kita membaca, especially novel/ cerita, we tend to imagine the scene, so that we can understand the feeling and the meaning behind the words.
Faham-faham je la bila apply untuk novel Pantai Kasih ni.

As a conclusion, SERIOUS TALK, tak sesuai nak include kan novel macam ni untuk belajar kesusasteraan bahasa melayu. Ayat-ayat macam tu boleh je jumpa dalam novel-novel cinta dekat pasaran. Jangan jadikan ini satu lagi medium untuk naikkan statistik masalah sosial dalam kalangan remaja kita.

Even saya tak ambil degree bahasa melayu, saya pun tahu untuk hargai kesusasteraan meayu kita.

Pil gugur?

Tadi lepas study group, tetiba naik isu psychosexual disorders.

Pastu tiba2 pulak, naik cerita pasal pil gugur -.-

Stalk la pulak instagram. Speechless tengok banyak online kedai (personal shoppers kot) dekat instagram yang jual pil gugur.

Siap ada customers feedback weh. 

Diorang bercakap macam abortion tu satu perkara main-main.

Siap cakap abortion bersebab tu bukan abortion. Gila apa.

Ada satu feedback tu cakap lebih kurang: "Thanks **** janin tu dah jatuh.." 

-.- 

*****

Dunia akhir zaman.

Dah tak kenal mana satu betul mana satu tak.

I'm not talking because i'm pious ke maksum ke tak pernah buat salah ke apa, tapi sebab aku masih ada rasa kemanusiaan tu.

Dia ingat gugurkan kandungan tu macam buang kulat yg lekat dekat roti tu ke?

Apa la perasaan janin tu kalau dia tahu apa yang so-called mak dia buat dekat dia?

Pernah dengar satu kisah ni dekat radio IKIM. Kata penceramah tu, anak2 yang tak sempat hidup dekat dunia ni (yg stillbirth), diorang akan tunggu mak ayah dekat pintu masuk syurga sebab diorang tak pernah jumpa mak ayah diorang dekat dunia.

Tapi, dalam kes ni, adakah  teori ni boleh di-apply?

Kalau mak ayah dia bertaubat, alhamdulillah.

Sedih weh tengok keadaan remaja-remaja, budak sekolah zaman sekarang ni.
Kalau tengok balik, banyak je kes2 sodomy dalam kalangan budak bawah umur ni.
Law, paling2 pun masuk sekolah juvenile tu. Then, emotional, psikologi, fizikal yang mangsa nya? Benda bukan boleh hilang dengan petik jari je. Benda ni akan sentiasa ada dalam memori. Susah.

Bukan nak kata batch sendiri takde buat salah suci ke apa, tapi baru rasa celik dengan nikmat yang Allah SWT bagi; lahir dalam keluarga yang alhamdulillah well-managed.

Mungkin, kesenangan dan kesusahan kita dan yang lain2 yang mungkin tak bernasib baik tu lain ganjarannya.

Tak tahu la macam mana diri sendiri kalau berada di tempat tu. Nauzubillah.

Semoga Allah kurniakan hidayah dan kesempatan bertaubat buat mereka.

Kita ni pun, jangan duk riak bangga sangat la tak duk in their shoes.

Bila2 je kita ni kalau Allah tarik sikit nikmat...habis lah.

Jadi, sentiasa lah bersyukur dengan apa yang kita ada, dan belajar menghargai. Jangan bila dah takde atau hilang, baru nak menyesal. Takde guna dah derr.

Dan jangan lupa taubat jugak. Kita ni bajet je alim, tak buat maksiat, buat benda baik2 je, tapi dalam hati siapa je tau? Allah dengan diri sendiri je tau apa dalam hati tu. (Ni peringatan untuk diri sendiri jugak, no offense).

Moga Allah redha semuanya.

A pinch of light

Memang bila something bad happened to us, kita akan rasa the not-right-feeling before eh?
It's like a hint.

Just had a small accident.
Hujan lebat and i was driving 100kmh (dekat highway kehh)
And tiba-tiba rasa tak boleh nak control stereng and tiba-tiba kereta menghala ke tepi jalan, which kereta langgar divider sikit (in which kalau takde divider jalan, memang masuk longkang tepi jalan tu and kereta boleh terbalik).
Dan sangatlah nasib baik sbb kereta belakang agak jauh n dia bawak slow, kalau tak memang serial accident la.
Dan alhamdulillah sekali lagi, kereta ada ABS and kereta agak berat (kereta besar) so takdela terbang terbalik ke apa.

Lepas tu terus call PLUSronda tu.

*****

Sebelum kejadian tu, i had this imagination of an accident dekat Tapah (kalau tak silap). Pasal satu kereta yg signboard jatuh atas kereta and semua dalam kereta tu meninggal (innalillah).
Dan time tu teringat jugak sorang senior ni pesan, bawak slow la time hujan, jalan licin.
Dan tak tau la kenapa, i kept thinking what will happen if kitorang ter-accident?

Maybe it's a hint.

To be true, it's really a hint kan?

Alhamdulillah semalam bukanlah accident yg teruk/massive/dahsyat, tapi dahsyat enough utk kitorang.

I just realize, what if i died yesterday?
Dengan dosa berkoyan nya ;(
Semoga Dia ampuni segala dosa-dosa kita sebelum disapa malaikat maut.

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A piece of advice.

Untuk para ayah yg ada anak perempuan, abang-abang yg ada adik atau perempuan, suami kepada isteri, sesiapa shj yg ada kaum hawa dalam family dia, please please and please bagilah basic knowledge sikit dekat diorang yg perempuan ni. Contoh mcm cara nk tukar tayar ke, apa nk buat kalau air kering ke, apa2 la..

Untuk driver-driver, jangan drive laju-laju time hujan lebat, especially dekat highway. Anything can happen.
And jangan lupa servis kereta utk long distance driving.

Life we are in

Just finished watched few episodes of this one drama. Last 6 years drama.                                            

I think the plot revolving around our life. Totally.

High and low class people, love between two class of people, playboy-attitude boys etc. I think I cannot finish this post if I kept mentioning the theme of this drama. Haha.

But, actually the drama is showing the real situations in our life. Children who are from high-rank families look down on those from low-rank families, the ideas that a heir from a high social level should not be friends with those different social level..it just doesn’t feel right.

We are always being amazed by the perfection of the actors and actress but why don’t we see the meaning behind every episodes. It does really showed us the real life that we’re in. It is terrible that we live in ‘that’ situation actually. For example, this one boy try to seek revenge on a boy that broke up with this lil girl. That so-called good boy in the first place should've explained what is the intentions of him doing so to the girl. Girl, you know. They easily fell for those do good to them. However, of course different girl have different level of fell (haha). And of course, this is not specified for certain religion or ethnicity, it works out for all girls. 

And if you do watched Malay dramas, if the mother is a datin (or from any high rank), they will ask their children to marry those from the same social level. Urghh, this is so sick *rollingeyes* eventhough this is a crucial issue in Islamic marriage, but if we don't think about the level of life, it can happen right? Or no?

BUT, of course not all are having this ideas, some would think otherwise. 

Dear rich people, your assets and wealth are not totally yours. They are all from God. In Islam, we believed that God grants some of us with lots of money, not for oneself, but also to help people that are not so fortunate. And we do believe that money is not the only grace that showed we are wealthy. There is another thing such as health, the sensory, happy family, calm and others. So money itself doesn't define how rich we are. Let's imagine if one is so rich but has broken family, busy parents, no child or not having good health, they might not happy with their life.

Woahh. This is quite long since my last post. Haha.

Sorry peeps, i'm just so angry with the people nowadays. Let's just put aside our social rank and help those in need. Yes, we need the power, but use it wisely.

*****

Dear you,

I don't know if you read this or not but thanks for all the memories and experiences.

Wherever you are, i hope you're in good health and happy with your life.

Sorry for being bad. Thank you for being someone i can share anything with and for making me happy, even for awhile.

And Selamat Hari Raya Aidiladha. Taqabbalahuminnawaminkum :)

Selamat Hari Raya Aidiladha people :)

The Effort

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Alhamdulillah.

The result was out this evening and we passed :)

A bunch of thank you to those who prayed for us.

Without your prayers, maybe we can't smile tonight.

Yep, this week is exam week.

A very hectic one.

Throughout this week, i think my heart would jump out from my chest anytime.

 

With all the changes, all the dramas, all the surprises..this is the most depressed week i think.

And yes, sometimes you have no choice but to move on.

You cannot stand static on the same spot, you'll be left alone.

Even though if you move on alone, at least you can meet many people who'll makes you feel grateful for what you have :)

From my observation throughout this week, i can summarize something.

Although you do tonnes of effort, but effort alone is not enough.

It needs something stronger to hold on.

It is duas.

From people around us. Especially our parents.

For muslims, we really believe that duas (prayer) from parents is the utmost gift.

I'm not sure is it from hadith or quotes, it said that mother's words are the most powerful duas.

That's why whenever i felt down, depressed, i will call my mom and her words soothes me on the spot.

The power of mother :')

The effort, the result were all set since we were created.

We make the effort because we are His slaves.

And the effort itself was already been set. The good result will not come by itself, it will look weird if it is so.

And not forgetting, selawat to Prophet Muhammad SAW.

Someone taught me to mention Prophet SAW in our duas.

It's like a ticket so that it goes straight to Allah SWT, because we've the biggest cabel; Rasulullah SAW. hee ;)

Lastly, if you think your effort is the one that make you who you're today, please STOP thinking like that right now.

It never correlate.

 

From Ustaz Muhammad Abdullah Al-Amin, he says, please do self-reflection.

Never amazed with your advantages, but looks for your weakness. And find the solutions to overcome it.

Oh yes, before i ends, tawakkal.

Totally tawakkal. 

After all your efforts.

*****

Alhamdulillah. Congrats to those who passed.

For those who don't, be strong. Don't easily feel upset because Prophet Muhammad SAW will always with you.

All the best and we'll see you in year 4 :)

#habisdah3rdyearweh #10bulanokayhh